RANT: There is no such thing as NOT lovable.

This rant was triggered by an episode of self loathing a friend went through. (better known as the “why doesn’t so-and-so love me” or “Will I ever find anyone who REALLY loves me?”)

I give the same advice to everyone, and sometimes what I have to say is NOT PRETTY but always true.

Brass Tax: If you aren’t “Loved” its because you aren’t Loving.

Putting yourself “out there” is more than dressing up and playing let’s make a deal in the dating scene. You have to be willing to show love unconditionally. Heck most people can’t even CARE unconditionally. This doesn’t mean be blind to glaring faults and it CERTAINLY does NOT mean go have sex with bunches of people … Click to Continue

Life is about CHOICE – Part 2

I mentioned it at the end of the last blog entry.  The over-all Theme for has been CHOICE.

We are all gifted with the freedom to choose. God has given us free-will and it is exercised everyday when we choose to get up, choose our clothes to wear, and choose our breakfast cereal.

Let us take another step forward and figure out how this continues to apply to YOU right NOW.

Today we will focus on Our Relationships…

Partners (romantic business) is my focus today. I get the best reactions from people is when I talk about my romantic relationships.

Realizations:

  • Embrace the past and LEARN from it…

I have an Ex-Wife whom I think the world … Click to Continue

Life is about CHOICE – Part 1

I was sharing with friends about the challenges of their (and my own) life and I noticed that God has gifted me with one primary thought, one Theme if you will.

The Theme du Jour is……………….. CHOICE

You will see it as a major theme in many of my posts. In fact I have dedicated a “Category” to CHOICE.

We are all gifted with the freedom to choose. God has given us free-will and it is exercised everyday when we choose to get up, choose our clothes to wear, and choose our breakfast cereal.
Let us take a step forward and figure out how this applies to YOU right NOW.

Today we will focus about surviving the Financial Crush….

Some … Click to Continue

The Universe has a way to keep you in check.

I don’t know if my mind is shaping my Universe or if my Universe is shaping my mind. This has always been a source of debate amongst philosopher’s and theologians alike.

Case in point: The Power of Prayer.

I had a very challenging event one week last year.

After watching a movie Sunday night, a Family member was wracked by severe pains. (9 out of 10 on the pain chart) This was so bad that any communication aside from tears was unlikely.

I insisted on an ER visit and for once she listened. We were on our way within a few minutes.

After many years of being away from this person I was (and still am) convinced that … Click to Continue